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Anyone who tries to say that running is purely a physical exercise is wrong! There are days when the physical part of running is the easy part, just one foot in front of the other, right? The past few races I have gotten caught up in the mental side of everything and let it get the best of me.

Pacers, don’t get me wrong I think they are great if you want someone else to run with so you can forget pacing, but they mess with my mind. I feel like I can’t run my own race and get so caught up in pace groups and staying in front of numbers to the point that it frustrates me when it doesn’t happen. This is wrong, but I feel like because of pacers everyone else knows how you are doing, whether good or bad. Without a pacer holding a big sign, you are on your own and running your own race.

Hills, although a big physical part here too, they are a huge mental game. Have you ever tried running up a big hill and looking at the top? It sucks, almost like convincing your body how big it truly is and that there is more to go. What about looking right in front of you and only focusing on the next step, it almost makes you feel that with each step you have reached the top.

Other runners, who doesn’t silently compete with those around you. Whether it be in a race or just out running. At least for me I feel like when people (other runners, cars, bikes, etc) pass me I need to give that extra push no matter how I feel. During a race I can’t be the only one who picks out others that I need to pass. I still remember my first 10 Mile race when I was a newer runner, there was a woman dressed as a pumpkin and I just kept telling myself “don’t let the pumpkin beat you”

Spectators have great intentions and it is great to be cheered along the race, but please don’t tell me I am almost done or have X miles left (especially when I haven’t even hit the halfway point yet!). Personally I hate hearing looking good especially when I am struggling. Please just say go runners, way to go or my favorite is music and the great signs!
Always motivation
But then you have those runs that no matter what is happening physically your mind is refreshed and happy. These are the runs I am trying to focus on right now. I have no reason to be pushing and need to renew my love of running and remind myself the importance of listening to my body.
Yesterday I rediscovered the joy of early morning runs. I had forgotten how peaceful it is outside at 5am and running with the sunrise. The best part is not even realizing you are out running until you are already in the midst of the run and feeling great.
Sunrise from vacation last winter, so peaceful.
Or those days when you accomplish your best thinking on runs and solve some of your biggest issues while soaking in the outside world and blocking out the stress of reality. Or the runs with friends that are filled with talking and are over before you even realize you started. These are the days when you have won the mental game and the keys to hold on to during the tough mental runs. Running not only builds physical strength but mental toughness as well, as a runner I feel ready to deal with most of life’s situations and can push through.
You can connect with Jen on her blog Marathon Mom.
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  1. fitnessofthegods
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    July 3, 2012 at 6:31 pm

    Great post! Highly motivating too! As a personal trainer I love clients like yourself! Love it! I especially love the “beer at the finish line” sign, thats epic! Keep it up!
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